You should be congratulated. 

Filing bankruptcy means you love and care about your family enough to even file bankruptcy. 

Unfortunately...life can be brutal. 

And you had a choice: 

You could have let life continue to toss you around.... 
....or you could choose to do something about it. 

Filing bankruptcy means you chose to do something about it. 
...to make the smart and courageous decision to move on
    with your life, 
...to do what had to be done, 
...to put things back in their proper order...family first. 

You should be very proud. 

Congratulations!